A little info about me and some random thoughts...
Hi, and thanks for taking a look at my site.
I'm a Sacramento-based escort, in my mid thirties. That should be fantastic for you as it truly does seem that I'm in the midst of my sexual prime. Physically, I'm 5'1", 120 lbs, and a 34A.
Onto the random thoughts:
Great sex begins with... passion and intimacy! I think you can have great sex without being in love, but without passion and intimacy, then you're just going through the motions. And, yeah, physical stimulation and attraction are definitely key components, but if that's ALL that you wanted, then wouldn't your hand (or toy) and the latest Playboy suffice? Sorry if that seems crass, but I think it's true.
Men are great...because sometimes I have heavy things that I don't want to carry. ;-) Beyond that, without getting too heavy into the stereotypes pertaining to gender roles, there are some definite innately masculine qualities I find myself drawn to. I've found that men that I'm most attracted to are capable of exuding confidence, wielding power, and have dominated in their career field. Not that women aren't capable of doing the same, but witnessing a successful woman in possession of those same qualities doesn't get me all hot and bothered.
Every woman should have...a killer pair of heels, some smokey black eyeliner, and lipstick. There's nothing I can't conquer without eyeliner and lipstick. And the heels? Well, I just like being taller!
My typical day...is yet to be determined. Hopefully, I'll have a better answer in six months when things have slowed down for a little bit. At the moment, no day is typical.
My favorite activity...besides the obvious? LOL... Well, since this isn't a match.com ad, I'll spare you the details of how much I enjoy being a mom. After all, I certainly don't need to appeal to your soulmate-seeking side for this kind of endeavor, now do I? For the record though, I do think that being a mother, and into my thirties now, is an asset. And in general, I think women with a nurturing side do well in this field. But my favorite activity beyond anything mom-related would have to be people-watching. Other peoples' stupidity never ceases to amaze me. And every now and then, you're even pleasantly surprised to see the good Samaritans prevail.
What I'd do with more time...Well, the sleep-deprived part of me wants to say sleep. But that's not true at all. I'm one of those "I'll sleep when I'm dead" types. If I had more time, I'd want to spend it with my family and friends. Life is too short to not have fun, and I have the most fun with my family and friends. Work, yes, even this, is a means to an end. And education and knowledge are great and all, but I doubt that I'll ever be on my deathbed wishing that I had just taken the time to learn XYZ, or still lamenting the fact that I had been passed over for a promotion. Sure, that might sound a little Susie Sunshine, but I have a pretty good life and I think I've been able to build some good relationships and make some pretty awesome memories, so my approach can't be all wrong.
Romancing my man...really? Don't ask me...I'm more of a seductress than a romantic. : P
I'll never...act like I'm anything less then I am. I hate it when women dumb themselves down.
Nobody knows...but I really want to do stand-up comedy someday.
Call me crazy...but I don't think that just because you CAN reproduce, that you should be ALLOWED to.
I may look innocent...(Wait, what? I can't even answer this one. I don't look the least bit innocent...not by a long shot. In fact, I usually look anything but innocent. I look like a girl who knows how to have fun. You can take that as you'd please, and whether or not the "know how to have fun" part is true is probably also debatable. But the word "innocent" is not one that I think anyone has ever used to describe my appearance.)
Perfect date...hmmm...that's a tough one. In this capacity, I'd love to be wined and dined as I love to try new things. I've just recently realized that I'm starting to like wine more and more and I've been reading a lot of books about food lately. But in real life, I've found that most men my age rarely have the means or desire to incur such an expense for a mere date (unless it's a special occasion). And truth be told, I'm just as content with a good beer in a quiet dive bar...as long as there's conversation. The conversation is key, in my opinion, as it's hopefully a genuine reflection of the real person. Otherwise, you're just another pretty face...
You can never have enough...black fishnets! Can you really ever go wrong with fishnets?
My best decision...was to stop relying on others to do things for me and start doing them myself. I finally realized that the only player on "Team Tabatha" that was ever going to come through for me, was ME!
My self-image...is that I'm a persistant little ass-kicker. Yeah, put that in your pipe and smoke it. ;-) Sure, I wandered down the wrong path for a stretch, and I've fallen down a few times, but I keep getting back up. I'm not quiet, demure, or docile. But I'm also not boisterous, uncouth or crass; I have a sense of decency and certainly know right from wrong. But I'm not going to be anybody's doormat, nor am I going to sit and toil doing all the work anymore so someone else can get all the accolades.
My philosophy...is to keep on truckin'. As Nietzsche said, "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." At the risk of sounding 80, everyday that I wake up is a good one, right? I don't have a whole lot to complain about; I've got healthy, happy kids and I'm still able-bodied and hopefully smart enough to make the most out of my time in this field.
Sex is...natural, sex is fun, sex is best when it's one on one. George Michael can't be wrong!
I'm a sucker for...chivalry. That might seem a little contradictory to some of my other statements, but I don't think it is.
